IDECLAIR MEDIA, DECLARATIONS OF IDECLAIR... IDECLAIR IT!

Hello World. Gratitude is a blessing. It is peace.

Here we go again . . . another group of girls, teenagers . . . beats a classmate, videotapes, and posts on the web. Women, I am strictly talking to you right now . . .

Whatever self hating, loser feeling, pity absorbing, negative thinking, thoughts you live by, are being passed onto your offspring. They have all that, and their own as well. All they know is the gravity of your stress and self hatred. Get aware.

I don't blame you though, it's how we are molded to become. Retail sheep. We are taught to be infinite consumers, (can anyone tell me why a handbag is 5000.+) Who we are is what we wear, how big our breasts, how curvy our ass, how long our legs, how long our hair, how flat our stomach, how thin our thighs, how big our lips, how tan our skin, how cool our car, how smooth our house, how hot our bag, and on and on and on . . .

We have all been bamboozled. Women in particular. Men are screwed up too . . . how tough they are, how athletic they are, how much money they have, how cool there car is, how fly the wardrobe is, gotta have the hair just right, how Italian are your shoes, how deep is your pension, and on and on and on . . .

Who do we think we are fooling? It would be funny . . . if it wasn't so tragic. Our Children "look like" complete idiots, "are" complete idiots, there behavior is a vivid expression of how off our game is as parents.

I believe we have come to a point where we should be able to say. . . If you as a woman do not want children, are not willing to commit emotionally and provide them with the nurturing required to raise a healthy human being . . . please do not have them. Women please. If you have them . . . then raise them. Please . . .

Many girls of our nation are angry, ill informed, coddled, non disciplined, uneducated, no respect for religion, no modesty(you can forget that one!!!), and need to be attended to. The two words "attention" and "deficit", mean the lack of nurturing attention . . . kids require nurturing attention.

Kids should not have the opportunity to go beat up anyone. Mom,dad, uncle, brother, and whoever else you have, fills that gap of opportunity. This is where the scattered and shattered family comes into play. This is where the kid falls through. No family net to catch the kid. Kid falls to the street, and the behavior of the street. This happens on all economic levels.

Look, parents . . . we have a problem. We are past the point of being embarrassed. We cannot afford the luxury of being embarrassed any longer. Embarrassment is a luxury we simply cannot afford. Our kids are angry and violent . . . and we need to call it out.

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