Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Hello World. R. Kelly the singer . . . and the situation he finds himself in judiciously . . . accused of having sex with a young (girl) teen, and the subsequent video, is symbolic of a much larger problem.

The problem is early sexualization of our nations young girls and teens . . . and the males that lure, prey after, and make money off of them (to the tune of billions). Feel me . . . ?

The lusty, thirsty, and downright foul approach . . . to all that is female has poisoned many minds, and filled many trust funds. Respect for female is a grim situation, but is also . . . very good business.

No . . . I am not talking about Hillary Clinton!!!

What I am speaking of . . . is a true, vaporizing, dehumanizing of all that is female. Especially black female. Many women . . . are perpetrators (known and unknown) of our own destruction.

We as a gender, and we as a culture . . . allow ourselves and our children to be used as sex toys and disrespected sexual distributors, while simultaneously being belittled, beaten, blown off, stepped over, demeaned, and on and on and on . . . all the while fawning (with below the surface desperation . . .) for "any" attention . . . from "any" kind of male.

The mother to daughter taught behavior of delaying sexual gratification, making a worthy man prove his worthiness to you (denying access to your precious, priceless and most powerful pussy) is almost a historic past time. Instant sexual access . . . is standard. Many women know so little about their own value, we think we are, and are supposed to be . . . the images we have been electronically fed.

Thank you modern feminism. Thank you modern media.

Many women will share males (friends with benefits). Many women will be socially spat on(daily talk programs . . . who's the daddy?). Many women will stand in line to purchase the very product (gangster and sexually illicit so called music) that destroys our essence, and that of our children.

Many women have not, or do not know how to stand strong, tall and in principal to say NO . . . Get away from my daughter!!! Our nations daughters have been played, pimped, and pickled . . . for that very same type of attention. And so have we. Period.

The R. Kelly case . . . symbolizes a much larger problem. The lack of personal respect and responsibility for oneself . . . and ones children, can only bring negative attention and circumstances. We as a gender, and as a culture . . . have to come clean . . . and admit, and take responsibility for, and move on from . . . our dirty.

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